http://www.lovinghomosexuals.com/html/relevant_loving_homosexuals.html
"Ministry leaders all across the country are discovering that effective ministry requires not just welcoming gay and lesbian people into our churches and campus ministries, but embracing an entirely new way of communicating the church’s stance on homosexuality. Instead of looking at lesbian and gay people through the world’s eyes, we need to look at the world through their eyes. This means that, when discussing the subject of homosexuality with people, we must use words that are inclusive, not divisive. While homosexuals use words like “love” and “relationship” to describe homosexual behavior, Christians use words like “sin” and “abomination.” - Chad Thompson, Founder of Inqueery, author of "Loving Homosexuals as Jesus Would"