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The Future of Traditional Marriage
Written by Lee Wilson
Sunday, August 29, 2004
Some of the modern, liberal thinkers of our day have said that marriage will one day become extinct. They've predicted marriage will slowly but surely be thought of as old-fashioned and unnecessary despite its current popularity and existence throughout human history.
Perhaps their predictions are based on the changes in the way society views love and marriage. During the 1960's, society showed us a picture of love somewhat unfamiliar to American culture at that time. The popular love stories of the day began focusing only on passion and held an attitude that said, ''I'm not committed to you but I am having a great time with you sexually and romantically. I like how you make me feel right now. But who knows what I'll feel tomorrow? So let's not make any kind of commitment to each other but just enjoy this moment.''
Novels, newspapers, and other forms of media touted this as the ideal kind of love. A direct correlation can't be proven, but during that time the divorce rate skyrocketed and has remained high until today. That warped concept of love taught us that if we can't have all the passion and pleasure we want from one person, we can always find someone else who will give it to us. Perhaps that is why some marriage researchers tell us that today 6 in 10 marriages at some time in the course of the marriage are affected by extra-martial affairs.
Commentary: The dollars and cents of gay marriage
Christian Science Monitor - http://www.csmonitor.com/2004/0830/p17s01-cogn.html?s=hns -
By David R. Francis - [NOTE: I'll leave it to finer minds than mine to dismantle this naive, "whistling past the graveyard" piece from the CSM. Ultimately, though, the economic issue is a red herring. The best the CSM can come up with is that the issue has virtually no impact on the economy. Even if SSM and domestic partnerships proved to be of great financial value to employers (I'm being incredibly generous here), the other side effects trump money evey time. - GW] - Gay marriage challenges society. It roils contemporary politics and raises moral objections for some. But on economists' screens, it barely registers.
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