Exodus: Live Out Loud

Randy Thomas on California's Gay Marriage Ruling

Exodus Executive Vice President Randy Thomas responds on his blog to the historic ruling by the California Supreme Court overturning a voter-approved ban on same-sex marriage:

Exodus has been on record as opposing the redefinition of marriage, the use of hate crimes legislation to suppress freedom of conscience and religious liberty as well as ENDA­, the corporate version of hate crimes. ENDA is another example of the state forcing a state sanctioned sexual morality at the expense of religious liberty.

Exodus has only been involved in these public policy battles for the past five years and while we have very strong beliefs, I think it is a mistake for Christians to believe that Joe Solomnese, a gay identified man in charge of the HRC (largest gay lobby in the world) wants to proverbially burn Christians at the stake.  While he has been dismissive of my life and testimony, I choose not to be dismissive of his because I once believed as he does.  My only desire was to live in a homosexual relationship.

Read Randy's blog post >>

Gay Activists Visit Mega-Churches

From CitizenLink:

They call it The American Family Outing: Families from across the country travel to six mega-churches to "create meaningful conversations" about faith and homosexuality.

The gay-activist group Soulforce kicked off its six-week initiative with a stop at Joel Osteen's Lakewood Church on Mother's Day; the effort wraps up on Father's Day. Osteen declined an invitation to meet with Soulforce.

Jeff Buchanan, director of church equipping at Exodus International, said each church needs to assess whether a meeting would be helpful.

"I would be completely open to having a meaningful conversation, if both parties were humbly submitted in that conversation," he said. "I would not enter into a conversation if I knew there was not a sincere openness to the truth."

One of the goals of the initiative, according to Soulforce, is to enlist churches in the battle to end "the physical and spiritual violence perpetuated by some religious voices against LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered) people and their families."

Buchanan said he is concerned by the stereotype that all churches are party to that violence.

He recommended churches — and all Christians — embrace the issue "with compassion, not compromise."

Read the entire article >>

Grace and Gay Men

Randy Thomas in Boundless:

AIDS as a social issue has been used to scare people. And it should. Over the past 20-plus years there have been valiant efforts to humanize the AIDS issue with regard to African American community, drug abusers and orphans in Uganda. The thing is, when it comes to gay identified males ... the corporate Church has been estranged and reluctant.

As the AIDS pandemic first hit, we in the Body of Christ missed an opportunity to express God's servant heart and grace. In this redemptive void, a few stepped forward to stigmatize homosexual men. Even today, the overarching consistent message coming from the Christian community has been one of stigmatization and warning.

Certainly, it's very appropriate to educate and "warn" about the dangers of sexual relationships outside of a biblical sexual ethic. But I did not and do not think it is appropriate to stigmatize a large group of men whom the Lord loves, dismissing them as unworthy of our love.

Read the whole article >>

Gay-Identified Bishop Refuses to "Lend Credibility" to Symposium

From Warren Throckmorton:

Today, the Washington Blade reported that Bishop Gene Robinson backed out of his scheduled presentation at the American Psychiatric Association conference. He was scheduled to present about “A Pastoral Approach for Gay & Lesbian People Troubled by Homosexuality.”

Bishop Robinson provided the following explanation:

“Conservatives, particularly Focus on the Family, were going to use this event to draw credibility to the so-called reparative therapy movement,” Robinson told the Blade. “It became clear to me in the last couple of weeks that just my showing up and letting this event happen … lends credibility to that so-called therapy.”

This is quite troubling and not at all accurate. Since no one on the panel planned to speak about reparative therapy, it is clear to me that the Bishop was misinformed. The symposium was approved by the APA in October of 2007 and nothing has changed in the descriptions, personnel or intent of the symposium since then. The meeting is not going to endorse reparative approaches, or advocate for any change in APA policy.

Alan Chambers in New Man Magazine

New Man: You struggled with same-sex attraction yourself. Did that experience lead you to the ministry you’re in today?

 

Alan Chambers: Definitely. When I was growing up the only thing you ever heard about from the Bible regarding homosexuals was that they don’t inherit the kingdom of God. That’s the one thing that rings in my head from childhood. So when I found out that there was a local Exodus ministry, that there was help for people like me, I jumped at it.

 

New Man: So years later you have come back to be the president of Exodus?

 

Chambers: Yes, I’m the president of Exodus. Really from the time I was 18 until now—I’m 36—I’ve never left the ministry. I started out as someone who was participating and someone who needed help and then I was a volunteer, than on staff at a local ministry and worked through the ranks and to where I am now.

 

New Man: Your ministry is inherently controversial. You have been interviewed by a number of news outlets and you’re unapologetic about trying to change homosexuals. What is your response to someone who says, “They can’t change”?

 

Chambers: Well my first response is that we don’t change people. I want to be very clear about that. We are people who simply point to the truth and Scripture, to the truth of our testimonies and to the grace of a God who promises He’ll free anyone who submits his will to His Lordship. It will be different for different people. I know a lot of people that didn’t experience a change in their feelings. They didn’t experience the same freedom I did, which is sometimes hard to understand.

Read the whole interview >>

APA: No Consensus on Cause of Homosexuality

From CitizenLink:

Group gives credence to the view that both nature and nurture are involved.

The American Psychological Association (APA) may be shifting from its view that homosexuality is inborn. The group now says both nature and nurture are involved, and clients have a right to self-determination.

In a new brochure, the APA concedes that there is no scientific consensus on what causes same-sex attraction.

“They are starting to have the integrity of reporting accurately about the condition of homosexuality," said Randy Thomas, executive vice president of Exodus International. "We find this to be a very exciting move and hope that it indicates future movement toward recognizing that people can and do overcome homosexuality.” 

Glenn Stanton, director of global family formation studies at Focus on the Family, said the brochure has an activist bent, but he sees a ray of hope.

“This doesn’t mean that we’ve completely succeeded in all the things that we’ve wanted to," he said, "but it’s a move in the direction that we’ve wanted them to move in, and I think that’s very positive news.”

Exodus Representatives Participate in Documentary Screening

"For the Bible Tells Me So," a documentary about Christian families who were faced with a homosexual child, and ultimately grew to embrace their homosexuality, was presented at an open screening at Stetson University last week. The screening was followed by a discussion panel featuring the film's director, Daniel Karslake. Among the other panelists were Mike Ensley of Exodus Youth and Dr. Julie Hamilton, a professional counselor affiliated with Exodus.

From the Daytona Beach News-Journal Online:

Overall, the movie won praise from both the conservative and liberal panel members.

"I loved that the core of it was families' stories," said Mike Ensley, a counselor with Exodus Ministries, which helps youth wanting to overcome homosexuality.

The documentary focuses on five Christian families coming to terms with a gay son or daughter. Just released on DVD, it's becoming a popular movie for church screenings, said filmmaker Daniel Karslake...

...Dissenting about some of the movie's science was Julie Harren Hamilton, a Palm Beach psychologist and president-elect of the National Association for the Research and Therapy of Homosexuality, which helps clients change their sexual orientation.

She disputed the suggestion that homosexuality is simply genetic, arguing that the causes are more complicated.

Karslake, the filmmaker, defended his research but agreed with Hamilton that everyone should study the issues for themselves and draw their own conclusions.

Meet an Exodus Ministry

Like many of Exodus' local Member Ministries, New Creation Ministries in Fresno, California serves people struggling with a broad range of sexual issues, not just homosexuality. Here's an excerpt from the most recent monthly letter from NCM's Director, Russell Willingham:

People come here at every stage of their healing journey. Some are brand new and terrified. Others have been in recovery for awhile but experience a huge breakthrough. Still others are in a place of spiritual and relational health for the first time in their lives and praising God for it...

"William" has been here for a year. Raised in a violent, alcoholic home he experienced things that no boy should ever see. It taught him not to trust anyone or ever let them in. In his loneliness he turned to any woman who would have him (being attractive and likable enabled him to have many such women). A few years ago he came to Christ and eventually came to NCM for help with his sexual sin and brokenness.

William devours his Bible and has a thirst for God bust has never really felt God's personal love for him... Being in counseling and group has helped but the biggest breakthroughs have come through worship. During the regular worship times in our weekly groups he has felt the Lord draw nearer and nearer. William beams now as he shares about God's love for him...

I don't have time to tell you about "Nancy" who has struggled since childhood with lesbianism and a hatred for her body--who is now in love and letting a man into her heart for the first time; or "Eric," the Mormon elder and life-long sex addict who is finding answers that years of therapy and church involvement never gave him.

These are the kinds of people you enable us to help through your giving and praying...

The real ministry of Exodus International takes place at the local level through our many affiliates who support, encourage and challenge the struggling individuals and families who come to them for help. Please prayerfully consider finding the Exodus affiliate in your area and asking the Lord if and how he would like you to support their vital work.

Russell Willingham has also written two outstanding books, Breaking Free and Relational Masks, both of which are available at the Exodus Bookstore.

Ted Haggard Ends 'Restoration' Process

From Charisma Magazine:

The council appointed to administer fallen pastor Ted Haggard’s process of “spiritual restoration” has agreed to his request to end their oversight reports the Rocky Mountain News.

 

Despite this, members of the New Life Church team contest that “the process of restoring Ted Haggard is incomplete and [New Life] maintains its original stance that he should not return to vocational ministry.”

 

Haggard, who was fired in November 2006 as pastor of the church he founded amidst a sex and drug scandal, will reportedly maintain what New Life described as an “accountability relationship” with Phoenix First Assembly of God pastor Tommy Barnett.

 

According to the Rocky Mountain News, Barnett pastors the church Haggard now attends and was a member of the council helping to restore him. 

 

Fox News reports that Haggard’s “spiritual restoration” process was expected to last at least another four years.

GSA Clubs and Social Activism

From CitizenLink:

The Gay-Straight Alliance Network (GSA) is doing its best to make sure high schools use next week — the so-called Freedom to Marry Week — to rally support among students for same-sex "marriage." Schools are encouraged to feature mock weddings, guest speakers, teach-ins and a movie night with gay-themed films.

Randy Thomas, executive vice president with Exodus International, said the agenda is clear.

“GLSEN (Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network) and GSA groups are all about indoctrinating our young people to a gay worldview," he told Family News in Focus. "And now they’re not settling for just indoctrinating young people, they’re trying to turn them into activists.”

Hat tip: Randy Thomas

'Liberation:' Exodus in WORLD Magazine

From WORLD:

A couple of days ago, Tony Woodlief’s WoW post, “Anti-homosexual Christianity,” stirred quite a conversation. Tony looked at a piece of the book UnChristian, whose authors observe of the church that “outsiders say our hostility toward gays - not just opposition to homosexual politics and behaviors but disdain for gay individuals - has become virtually synonymous with the Christian faith.”

The post interested me greatly because I spent quite a bit of time this week talking with former homosexuals, and with Catholic, Jewish, evangelical, and secular counselors and psychologists who help people walk away from unwanted same-sex attraction. Two trends emerged:

First, it appears that the cultural liberation of homosexuality is also liberating those seeking to escape it.

Second, the cultural mainstreaming of homosexuality is awakening some churches to more compassionate ways of dealing with homosexuality — without endorsing the behavior.

Read the whole article >>

"A New Day" - the 2008 Exodus International Freedom Conference

Join hundreds of other men, women, families, ministers and youth as we fellowship together in Asheville, North Carolina at this year's International Freedom Conference. Click here for more information.

Sex-Ed Dispute Aired in Court

From WashingtonPost.com:

A six-year battle over the content of a new sex education curriculum in Montgomery County schools came down to two questions posed yesterday in a Rockville courtroom: Can the school board legally teach students that homosexuality is innate? And can the lessons discuss sex acts other than copulation?

Montgomery educators are defending the new curriculum, approved by the school board last summer, which addresses sexual orientation as a classroom topic for the first time. The lessons place the county at the fore of a trend among some of the nation's public schools toward more candor in discussing homosexuality. But they have prompted a strenuous challenge from religious conservatives who see the curriculum as a one-sided endorsement of homosexuality.

Read the whole article >>

Pride and Prejudice: Montel Williams Style

By Alan Chambers:

So, Montel Williams has a temper.

While in Savannah to promote a program offering free prescriptions to those with low incomes, the talk-show host blew up at Courtney Scott, a high school intern at the Savannah Morning News, when she asked him, "Do you think pharmaceutical companies would be discouraged from research and development if their profits were restricted?" Williams terminated the interview and later said to Scott, "Do you know who I am? I'm a big star, and I can look you up, find where you live and blow you up." He has since apologized.

Some might be surprised by the Montel's irrational outburst. I'm not. I was a guest on his show this past March and witnessed the same pride as well as an ample display of his prejudice.

Read the whole column at WorldNetDaily >>

GSA Network Board Member Resigns Amid Pornography Allegations

From Family News in Focus:

by Steve Jordahl

Peter Robertson resigned from the board of GSA Network, California’s largest organizer of school clubs that support gay teens, when it was discovered that he is also a pornographer. It appears he recruited young subjects during his tenure.

Mike Ensley was 17 and living in the gay lifestyle when Robertson asked him to pose nude.

“He identified himself as a photographer and just introduced himself as a friend, basically, and told me what he did and expressed interest in taking photographs.”

When Ensley said he was underage, Robertson asked him to call when he turned 18. Ensley has come out of the gay lifestyle and now works for Exodus International. He was astonished to see Roberson’s name on the Board of GSA Network.

Read the whole article >>

How Will You Respond to Homosexuality?

by Alan Chambers

One night while she was co-hosting The 700 Club, Sheila Walsh felt led to pray for homosexuals. Honoring the Holy Spirit’s prompting, she thanked God for His love for homosexuals and His desire for a relationship with them. She then invited all homosexual viewers to pray with her for salvation. When Sheila finished praying she encouraged those who had prayed with her to go to a church in their area, tell the pastor that they had asked Jesus into their heart, and say, “Sheila Walsh sent me.”

Sheila later received a letter from a gay man who had been watching the broadcast. He had asked Jesus into his heart, gone to a local church, met with the pastor, shared that he was gay and about the broadcast he saw. The pastor responded, “We don’t have room for fags in this church.” In his letter, the man shared that he was grateful to her, but that being a part of “The Church” was just not possible.

Read the rest of Alan's article for the Ethic's and Religious Liberty Commission >>

Former Homosexuals Applaud Research Showing Sexual Orientation Change Possible

Nashville, TN--Leaders of the world's largest outreach to those dealing with unwanted homosexuality commended recent research showing change in sexual orientation to be possible at a press conference today in Nashville.

The study, released by InterVarsity Press yesterday, is the first longitudinal, peer-reviewed, scientific research of its kind on this topic to date. Researchers Stanton L. Jones and Mark A. Yarhouse released the results of a three-year study during an address at the American Association of Christian Counselors World Conference. Their findings indicate that religiously mediated sexual orientation change is possible for some individuals and does not cause psychological harm to the patient, on average. These conclusions directly contradict the claims of both the American Psychological Association and the American Psychiatric Association that state that change in sexual orientation is impossible and attempting to pursue this alternative is likely to cause depression, anxiety or self-destructive behavior. The major findings of this study are reported in full in the book Ex-Gays? A Longitudinal Study of Religiously Mediated Change in Sexual Orientation (InterVarsity Press).

Former American Psychological Association President, Nicholas A. Cummings, Ph.D., Sc.D., praised the research methods of Jones and Yarhouse, "This study has broken new ground in its adherence to objectivity and a scientific precision that can be replicated and expanded, and it opens new horizons for investigation." In the absence of any scientific, peer-reviewed research on this topic, Exodus International funded the research conducted by Jones and Yarhouse.

Alan Chambers, a former homosexual and President of Exodus International, responded to the study findings at today's press conference, "Finally, there is now scientific evidence to prove what we as former homosexuals have known all along - that those who struggle with unwanted same-sex attraction can experience freedom from it.

For years, opponents of choice have said otherwise and this body of research is critical in advancing the national dialogue on this issue. Chambers, who was joined by researcher Dr. Stanton Jones at the press conference today, added, "Anyone who has undergone the life-changing process of leaving homosexuality behind will tell you that it is not an easy one. However, for thousands of us, the journey has been well worth it and we are grateful that these study findings give credence to our existence as men and women whose lives have been transformed by Jesus Christ."

Exodus Student Ministries Releases New DVD

Exodus' Student Ministry department is proud to announce the release of "Truth & Tolerance," our first DVD resource made especially for youth and young adult ministries.

This DVD, hosted by Scott Davis, Director of Exodus Student Ministries, brings the truth to life through the testimonies of four people who struggled with homosexuality as teens. The video is centered around a 25-minute segment which will address such topics as:

How should we respond to friends who struggle with homosexual feelings?
What is homosexuality really all about?
What does God really say?
Can people really change?

 

The video also includes a lesson on Biblical perspectives taught by Scott Davis, as well as the uninterrupted testimonies of Michelle Robinson and Mike Ensley. Sure to profoundly impact young people's hearts and minds on the issue of sexuality, this resource is a must-have for any student ministry.

Click here to purchase.

Click here to download the free video discussion guide.

"God's Grace..." Book Signing in Orlando this Weekend

Orlando, FL- This Saturday, March 19 at Long's Christian Book and Music Store, Alan Chambers, President of Exodus International, will sign copies of his book, God's Grace and the Homosexual Next Door: Reaching the Heart of the Gay Men and Women in Your World. Stop by the store between 11:00 a.m.-2:00 p.m. to receive a personalized inscription from one of the nation's leading speakers on the topic of homosexuality. 

Alan Chambers leads the largest evangelical organization dealing with the issue of homosexuality in the world today. His personal story as a teen and young adult who struggled with and overcame unwanted same-sex attraction has inspired thousands. He has been interviewed by media outlets across the country including TIME magazine, Newsweek, ABC's 20/20, Good Morning America and CNN. 

Long's Christian Book and Music Store is located at 1610 Edgewater Drive, just off of Insterstate 4. More information about the store can be obtained at: www.longschristian.com.

What if I'm Still Struggling?

There are many powerful stories out there about men and women whom God has delivered from the gay lifestyle. It touches the heart and certainly glorifies God when we see these people getting married and leading godly lives free of homosexuality, but in all honesty, what about the rest of us who deal with this issue and haven’t come to our “happy ending” yet? What about those of us who continue to struggle with same-sex attraction (SSA), even after choosing to follow Christ? We’re caught in a sort of identity limbo, unsure whether we can or even should hope to experience heterosexual desire, get married and start a family someday.

If you’re like me, all those testimonies from now-married “ex-gays” and those who have been “supernaturally delivered” from their struggle can be more of a frustration than an encouragement. Who can give men like us practical, understanding guidance? In the midst of an ongoing battle, how ought we to think about ourselves, our struggles, our future and our God?

As a single guy who continues to experience h same-sex attractions, these questions matter a heck of a lot to me. The world around me would say, “You’re still gay and nothing can change it! Accepting it is the only hing that will make you happy.” But, my faith in God’s Word—as well as my conviction and my personal experience—tell me otherwise.

The transformation many of us desire is a complete 180-degree turnaround of our sexual attractions; a transformation of our feelings. And let’s be honest, we often hope or expect that this change should occur without much of our own effort or sacrifice. But the Bible tells us that our metamorphosis as Christians happens a different way:

Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect. Romans 12:2 (emphasis added)

Read the rest >>

 

New Study Points to Environmental Factors in Sexual Attraction

Warren Throckmorton on BP News:

Mark Twain said once: "Rumors of my death have been greatly exaggerated." If environmental factors in sexual preference could talk, they might say the same thing. For sure, social or family factors in influencing sexual attractions have been written off by numerous scholars and media members. However, a new Danish study may prompt a fresh evaluation of the role of social factors in sexual orientation.

The study, published in the October 2006 issue of Archives of Sexual Behavior, authored by Danish epidemiologist Morten Frisch and statistician Anders Hviid, reports the analysis of data from more than two million men and women. It is the first study to examine an entire group of homosexuals for environmental factors in their decisions to "marry" homosexually. The research suggests a link between environmental factors such as geographic birthplace and family relationships and the probability of "marrying" a same-sex partner. The massive study also finds that the number of brothers and sisters affects the probability of marrying heterosexually. This finding questions a recent, widely touted Canadian study of birth order that found the number of older brothers increased the probably of homosexuality in men.

Read the whole article >>

New York Times and World Magazine Quote Exodus President

         

Reporters with The New York Times and World magazine recently interviewed Alan Chambers, President of Exodus International, about evangelicals, faith and homosexuality.

Church denominations and Christians around the world continue to grapple with the difficult and often-confusing topic of homosexuality. As the largest Christian outreach ministry dealing with this issue, Exodus remains dedicated to equipping the evangelical church with a compassionate, biblical response.

"It is our great hope that the global church will take advantage of the opportunity to reaffirm the compassionate truth of the Gospel so that more individuals can experience the freedom Jesus Christ offers," said Chambers.

Alan Chambers has recently authored the book God's Grace and the Homosexual Next Door — a guide to helping evangelicals reach out to hurting individuals in the gay community.

 

In The Coloradoan

I did this interview right before Thanksgiving.

Here are my quotes in the article Altered Orientation by Kelli Lackett

 

... Randy Thomas said mainstream mental health organizations fail to acknowledge that people who have changed their homosexual desires exist.

Thomas is membership director of Exodus International, a network of ministries promoting “freedom from homosexuality” through Christian faith. In his 20s, he identified himself as a gay man, but in the past 14 years, he says his identity and desires have changed.

He spent time at an Exodus ministry in Texas and is predominantly attracted to women and has a girlfriend of 4½ months.

“Today (same-sex desire) is like an annoying fly. I can easily dispel temptation,” he said.

“The APA can say what they need to say, but the reality is change is possible and it’s happening every day,” Thomas said. “Our right to self-determination should be respected. ...

Kelli asked good questions and I appreciate the balance she put into the article.

Activist Uses YouTube to Spin Interview and Ignores Parental Rights

I have been made the subject of a YouTube video. 

The activist, someone I actually like when he is using his talents toward other non-destructive purposes, is upset that I said on the Adam Carolla Show, twice, that we respect a person's right to self determination regarding what they want to do with their same sex attraction.  One of Exodus' Member Ministries, Love In Action (LIA) (one of the oldest ministries out of the close to 150 agencies who work with us) allows parents to enter their underage teenage children into their residential program.  This activist features quotes from a two young men who were made, by their parents, to go to the program.  Oddly enough, the video doesn't make a point that this was the parent's decision by their own initiative.  He also highlights Jerry Falwell (who spoke at our conference in 2005).  Falwell was quoted, according to a gay website, that he agrees it is ok for parents to make such a decision for their children.

Where this video fails is that it tries to make LIA's policy, an autonomous ministry incorporated as their own organization, as somehow a huge policy issue for Exodus and the other 149 or so agencies and churches we work with.  He mentions that LIA is one of the oldest ministries, but conveniently leaves out that their program for young people is relatively new.   The video also fails because it completely ignores parental rights afforded to the parent's by the state.  It further fails because it assumes that teenagers can't think for themselves as obviously displayed by the young man in the video who came out of the program to determine he was going to pursue his identity centered around homosexuality.  Plus, there are many others who have been helped by Love In Action.  Exodus and Love In Action didn't go out and force anyone into their program.  In the very few cases of people entering the program against their will (only two highlighted and I am not aware of any others) the parents came to Love In Action and entered their underage children...which they have a right to do according to law. 

And, on an important technical issue also not clarified in the video, I don't represent Love In Action or Jerry Falwell, I represent myself and Exodus.  I highly respect these other ministries.  Even so, neither have asked me to represent them.

This video is an attack against me by fusing multiple issues into sensational soundbytes.  Typical, and while visual (with great music in the background), not a very creative attack...except for the music.  What I said is completely accurate to Exodus' thirty year position on self-determination.

We do respect a person's right to self-determination.  Perhaps the maker of the video should be attacking state defined parental rights and the expression of religious liberties within that context ... instead of me. For some reason this person doesn't want to dig into the subject on that level and would rather attack me personally by reducing this personal and complex issue to name-calling (i.e. "liar".)

By the way, Tennessee, the state that was investigating Love In Action (LIA) dropped it's investigation after Love In Action sued them for religious discrimination.  The state, fully aware of LIA's activities and policies, upheld LIA's right to operate as a faith based organization and settled with them out of court.  The state even paid for Love In Action's court fees that resulted from their investigation.

Come Out!

From Alan Chambers' blog:

I am thankful for the climate of openness that has been created by those in the gay community who have and do advocate being honest over living in secrecy with regards to one's sexuality.  Lest you misunderstand me, I am not saying that I believe people should identify as gay or lesbian or that either labels are congruent with biblical standards.  However, I do firmly believe that the gay community has upstaged the Christian community on the moral value of honesty where "coming out" is concerned.

I did an interview this morning with a major Christian magazine and made the comment, "It is time for the leaders within the Christian community who are struggling with any type of sexual, chemical or emotional temptation to be honest about that." The reporter responded by asking, "What if the pastor is struggling with something that is taboo, like homosexuality?"

In my opinion there shouldn't be anything that we can't talk about or confess in church and among other believers.  A pastor who struggles with unwanted same-sex attractions shouldn't be shamed by us into secrecy.  Neither should such a pastor fall prey to that shame and decide to be secretive.  Where there is no honesty sin thrives!

Read the rest of this post >>

Exodus President to Discuss New Book on Christian Broadcasting Network

Alan Chambers, President of Exodus International, will be a guest this Friday on the Christian Broadcasting Network's Newswatch, hosted by Lee Webb. Chambers will discuss his new book God's Grace & the Homosexual Next Door. This new resource is a comprehensive guide to dealing with the often-confusing topic of homosexuality as well practical ways the church can reach hurting individuals affected by this issue. Information on local CBN Newswatch listings

Read an excerpt from God's Grace & the Homosexual Next Door

PFOX Flier Creates Controversy at a Maryland High School

From the local NBC affiliate--

SILVER SPRING, Md. -- A flier from a group called Parents and Friends of Ex-Gays and Gays, or PFOX, has started a controversy in Silver Spring.The flier was handed out during homeroom to students at Montgomery Blair High School . . . Gay students at the high school said the group behind it is homophobic.

The school said it had no choice but to pass it out. PFOX says it reaches out to gay teens offering unconditional love and support to homosexuals who want to become straight. Promoting a way out of a gay lifestyle, the nonprofit group offers to expose teenagers to "ex-gay" people.

"What we're saying is that, if you have unwanted same-sex attraction -- and there is a difference -- then there are alternatives, and homosexual feelings can be overcome," said Regina Griggs of PFOX.

The one-page handout taken home by hundreds and thrown out by others created a firestorm on campus.

Administrators, faculty and students quickly blasted the group as an anti-gay, homophobic organization.PFOX claims it is a resource for students.

Read the rest of this article >>

As a formerly gay-identified individual, I am familiar with the one-sided viewpoint of sexuality that's prevalent in the public school system. In high school, I was encouraged to embrace homosexuality not only by my peers, but also by members of the faculty who promoted that belief through their classroom teachings, and even in personal conversations with me.

In the beginning of my struggle, I didn't want to be gay; I wanted my life to be in harmony with my faith, and I wanted to accept myself as another one of the guys. Unfortunately, I never heard anything about the thousands of people who are living free of their once life-dominating same-sex attractions. I know my teens and early twenties would have been vastly different if I had just heard the truth a little sooner.

While those like the staff and faculty of this particular school, who believe change isn't possible, are entitled to have and express their opinions, they should not be entitled to silence those of others. Claiming to be against discrimination, they willfully seek to discriminate against any viewpoint that doesn't agree with their own. They negate not only faith, but the lives and stories of those of us who have experienced change. Worse yet, they seek exclusive rights to propogate their views on sexuality to a captive audience of young people.

I commend PFOX for speaking the truth despite the names and accusations hurled at them. I pray that their work--and ours--will continue to be protected, and will cause the message of freedom to reach the minds and hearts of struggling people sooner, to spare them the grief of a lifestyle that doesn't offer what they're looking for.

Exodus Responds to Rev. Haggard’s Admission of Moral Failures

Orlando, FL- November 6, 2006 Alan Chambers, President of Exodus International, released the following statement today after learning that the Rev. Ted Haggard, former pastor of New Life Church in Colorado Springs, Colorado, acknowledged sexual immorality in his private life:

"Exodus International is deeply saddened to learn that Pastor Ted Haggard has acknowledged moral failures in his personal life. While the consequences of such actions are justifiably grave, we reaffirm the bold love and forgiveness that Jesus Christ offers to each one of us as sinners in need of His grace.

"This admission reminds us all of our own spiritual and human weaknesses as well as the continued need for personal transparency and the accountability and care of others. No individual is above temptation and moral failure. No individual is excluded from the love and mercy of Christ. No individual should struggle alone in silence.

"Pastor Ted Haggard has been a loyal and vocal advocate for the compassionate truth of the Gospel and he has led many to a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. It is our sincere hope that in time he will again be used mightily for the cause of Christ. Pastor Haggard, his family and his church in Colorado will be in our prayers in the days ahead."

 

 

Founded in 1976, Exodus International is the largest resource and referral organization dealing with homosexual issues in the U.S. and throughout the world. With over 135 ministries across North America, Exodus is a growing network of former homosexuals dedicated to sharing the transforming power of Jesus Christ.

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Victory for Love in Action!

Exodus Member Ministry wins lawsuit out of court.

MEMPHIS, TENNESSEE, OCTOBER 27, 2006: Faith-based Love In Action International Inc. has agreed to a settlement that provides all of the relief they sought in their lawsuit. Pursuant to the agreement the state further agreed to pay the entirety of attorney fees incurred by Love in Action totaling $65,944.61. The lawsuit alleged that the Tennessee Department of Mental Health and Developmental Disabilities overstepped their jurisdiction when they threatened the faith-based ministry with closure and violated the ministry’s civil rights and protections guaranteed by the 14th Amendment.

Says Rev. John Smid, President and CEO, “I am extremely pleased with the outcome of this case. We can now turn our full attention to our mission of helping struggling individuals and families in crisis.” Rev. Smid went on to say that people who desire help should not be denied faith-based options because special interest groups have a narrow agenda to push and do so by manipulating civil institutions in disregard of the law.

Read the article in the Tennessean >>

Boston Herald Reporter Chuckles Over Change

***Welcome PJ Media Readers***

Yesterday I was taking notes at the press conference for the Liberty Sunday Simulcast.  As fortune would have it, I sat behind a reporter and a photographer for The Boston Herald.  She was leafing through the biographies of all the speakers, I noticed that she stopped on the biography for Exodus President Alan Chambers.  She leaned over to the photographer, pointed to his biography, said with a slight grin, "ex-gays..." and they both had a slight chuckle that made it appear they thought Exodus was a joke.

After the press conference, David Fountain ( Exodus Conference Director ), not having known what I had witnessed went up and offered the reporter our information piece and she quickly said "no thank you."

Given the chuckling I witnessed earlier ... one might think that she doesn't have much respect for our beliefs and the truth behind our testimony.

If I am going to be held accountable to practice what I preach, which I do not mind, I would hope reporters would be held  accountable for their actions as well.  The Society of Professional Journalists* say, "Seek Truth and Report It."  Here is the preamble to their Code of Ethics:

Members of the Society of Professional Journalists believe that public enlightenment is the forerunner of justice and the foundation of democracy. The duty of the journalist is to further those ends by seeking truth and providing a fair and comprehensive account of events and issues. Conscientious journalists from all media and specialties strive to serve the public with thoroughness and honesty. Professional integrity is the cornerstone of a journalist's credibility. Members of the Society share a dedication to ethical behavior and adopt this code to declare the Society's principles and standards of practice.

Whether the above mentioned reporter believed we were truly "ex-gay" or worthy of being laughed at really isn't the point.  The Exodus message was a major element of the press conference yesterday and this reporter laughed at our presence and refused our information.  This dismissal of our message was not fair, comprehensive or truthful to the entirety of the event.

People like Alan, including myself, are not gay whether the Boston Herald tolerates that fact or not.  Diversity and tolerance includes people like us.  If that fact is denied, then true diversity and/or tolerance is not displayed.  We have a place in the public square whether media outlets choose to pay attention and be coscientious to report the whole story or not.

I have invited this reporter to read this post and will let you know if I get any feedback.  It is my genuine hope that my observations of her actions are wrong.

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* I don't know if this reporter belongs to, or ascribes to the same beliefs as the SPJ or not.

Liberty Sunday Press Conference

Who: Tony Perkins (Family Research Council), Alan Chambers (Exodus), Pastor Pendleton (Tremont Temple Baptist Church), David Parker, Robert Wirthlin, Kris Mineau (Massachusetts Family Institute), Bishop Harry Jackson (Hope Christian Church).

What: Press conference concerning Liberty Sunday Simulcast

When: 3:00 pm EDT, October 15, 2006

Where: Tremont Temple Baptist Church

Disclaimer: The following is simply notes and paraphrasing I (Randy) wrote down during the press conference.  Direct quotes are properly noted within the text.  Everything else is paraphrased and spring from my understanding of what the presenters said.

First up Tony Perkins with the Family Research Council.  Tony shares that he was very excited about tonight's simulcast.  the reason they chose Boston is because same sex marriage started in this state and what we see in its wake is the loss of religious freedom.  As they have condoned same sex marriage, the state condemns Christian expression in the public square.  He said that this press conference and the simulcast won't be just about organizational spokespersons.  The message will be brought by the people who have been detrimentally affected by the decision of four judges in Massachusetts.  A decision that is setting a dangerous precedent and conflict around the country.

Dr. Ray Pendleton Pastor at Tremont Temple Baptist Church stated, "We think it is important to uphold what is best for the culture and the country.  We want to speak what is truth, in love."

Kris Mineau, heads up Massachusetts Family Institute said something to the effect of tonight's events will help emphasize the point for the Mass legislature should finally allow the people of Massachusetts to speak for themselves instead of unelected judges ignoring the will of the people and speaking for them.

David Parker was up next.  His son, when  in kindergarten was given a diversity book-bag that indoctrinates children with beliefs about homosexuality that are  contrary to the beliefs of the parents and the welfare of these five year olds.  The rights of parents are being trampled for the rights of a rampant gay agenda.

David Parker quotes Robert Scutch,  the author of pro-gay children's book, "Who's a Family?" put in the "diversity book-bag":  Scutch states, "I wrote the book for children before they know that there is any other way." 

David Parker continues, that the gay agenda is being promoted non-stop in many ways;  Day of Silence, Coming Out Day, High School students going to lower grades to talk about coming out and resources being made available to grade school and beyond.  Mr. Parker simply wants parents to be notified and given their right to opt out.  The Lexington school system will not notify parents.  Mr. Parker's conclusion is that where Religious liberty is compromised all liberties are compromised.  Parents need to take a stand for children around the country.  The ACLU is trampling on religious freedom and parents by helping the school system against the parents.

Rob Wirthlin is the father of a seven year old who, without Mr. Wirthlin's knowledge or consent, was read a book by his second grade teacher called King and King which is about romantic love between two princes who eventually marry. The Wirthlin's asked the teacher for a meeting but the night before that meeting, the principal called and intimated that the Wirthlin's had ulterior motives and she was gong to be there whether they wanted her to be there or not.  The Principal said that the Teacher said she chose the book specifically because she felt it was something that the little boys could relate too.    Mr. Wirthlin says, "I am standing for parents rights. Parents should be the ones who decide when where and how to approach these subjects with their very own children."

Tony Perkins announces Freedom Watch.  As long as liberty is in danger... FRC will keep watch and fight for liberty.

Alan Chambers was next.  Tony said that Alan was, "the most controversial speaker."  He said Exodus takes a message of hope across the country. There is a message of hope for the homosexual who wants to find freedom from homosexuality.   Tony said, "Those who are the trumpeters of tolerance have little tolerance for Alan's message."  Alan shared about how religious liberty is in danger as evidenced by the huge protest at last year's Love Won Out Conference at Tremont Temple Baptist church.  Close to two thousand people screamed, among other things, "Shut down Focus On The Family!" "Shut down Dr. Dobson!" "Shut down ex-gays!" "Shut down Tremont Temple!" no call for tolerance, just a desire to impose silence against those that disagree with the gay activists.  While it is important to fight for the preservation of religious liberties and important social issues, we must also have grace and compassion.  We must provide hope and help for those seeking freedom from homosexuality.

Tony Perkins says that the opponents say that religious conservatives use gay issues as wedge issues but Tony calls them a bridge issue.  There is no other issue (gay agenda) that has brought modern Christians together so well.  One of the side benefits of this unnecessary battle is an increasingly colorblind church.

Bishop Harry Jackson is the senior pastor of Hope Christian Church.  He gave a stirring history of black community struggling and leading the way to liberty. He states that the black pulpit in America has actually been the engine for the black community.  Black Pastors deserve to be heard and to have their voices count.  In the mid-term election you are going to see a growing union in the church and that is going to change the tide and turn back the gay agenda.  More than ever before you are going to see Values Voters show up and make a difference in America.

Afterward, the media questions were basic fact finding and not much else to report except one incident that deserves it's very own post.

Before closing this post however, I wanted to say that all the presenters were very calm, humble and eloquent.  My notes do not do them justice.  I also met Mr. Parker and Mr. Wirthlin after the press conference and I have to tell you, they are two very protective, humble and loving Dad's.  They were not activists before the Lexington School Board decided to usurp their parental rights but now that this school board has forced the fight... they will do whatever it takes to protect their children.  I genuinely enjoyed meeting these two men.

Also at the press conference, I met John Schroeder with Blogotional and Joe Carter with Evangelical Outpost.  These guys are serious bloggers and you really should check out their blogs on a regular basis. I truly enjoyed meeting them and discussing Christians, politics and blogging!  They were a lot of fun to meet.

Exodus Celebrates National Coming Out of Homosexuality Day

The world's largest outreach to those desiring freedom from homosexuality is today celebrating the eleventh annual National Coming Out of Homosexuality Day — a day to honor the changed lives of thousands of men and women who formerly identified themselves as gay.    

"As one of thousands who have experienced change, I know that there is life beyond homosexuality," said Alan Chambers, President of Exodus International. "A way out of the isolation and emptiness that many experience in gay life is available to anyone."

Chambers notes that the ex-gay movement is growing and reaching greater, more diverse audiences. "We continue to see a greater demand for the message of hope and change. The growth within our network as well as the increase in calls from those desiring our help demonstrate that many want more than the same tired 'born-gay' mantra that our culture has fed them. Today, we celebrate the reality of changed lives and look toward more opportunities to share this truth."

       

Exodus International has added education and training programs for pastors, church leaders and youth workers desiring to approach this issue with compassion and biblical truth. Since its inception in 1976, the organization has grown to include more than 150 member agencies, therapists and churches within its network that offer help to the over 400,000 people who contact them each year.

Living Hope Ministries on the Radio

Brady Cottle with Living Hope Ministries does an excellent interview regarding a conference they are hosting this weekend.  Here are the conference details.

A Redemptive Response to the Issue of Homosexuality

• How can we balance truth with a message of mercy and compassion?
• How do we respond well to this issue as Christians? 
• How do we love homosexuals as Jesus does?
• What does real, practical help look like for those dealing with unwanted same sex attractions?

October 14, 2006
Green Acres Baptist Church
Tyler, Texas

Click here for conference information

Values Voters Summit

Exodus brought a redemptive view of homosexuality to this years The Washington Briefing: Values Voters Summit.  At our booth we handed out plenty of informative material including general information about Exodus, testimonies and newsletters.  Person after person came up to us seeking prayer and ministry concerning their own struggles or their family member who identifies as gay.

The Washington Briefing is mainly about public policy concerning a broad spectrum of issues.  However, since the issue of redefining marriage into a gay worldview is of such importance (along with other gay-centric efforts in public policy), many leaders at The Washington Briefing have gone out of their way to welcome the Exodus message and bring a very important perspective to the table.  Our perspective includes preserving marriage, an extremely important social institution,  while reaching out with compassion.   Wherever, public policy affects the people we are ministering too, we will be there to offer a personal and redemptive view.

Included in the "continue reading" reading link below will be a couple of articles covering the summit and excerpts as they pertain to the battle over marriage.

Exodus Church Network at the Grassroots

Check out what Anita has to say about the Exodus Church Network.

I pray many more will join Anita in spreading the word.

Exodus Releases A Guide to Help Evangelicals Reach the Gay Community

Exodus Releases A Guide to Help Evangelicals Reach the Gay Community

Orlando, FL- Exodus International has just released a resource designed to help evangelical churches and individuals practically demonstrate compassion to gay men and women. Written by Alan Chambers and the Exodus staff, God's Grace and the Homosexual Next Door is a comprehensive guide to dealing with the often-confusing topic of homosexuality as well as hurting individuals affected by it.

Several key areas are addressed including the behavioral complexities and roots of homosexuality; dealing with fear and ignorance within the church; leading gay men and women to Christ; mentoring repentant homosexuals in the church and helping youth affected by homosexuality. The book, published by Harvest House Publishers, also offers practical guidelines on talking with gay men and women with tips on "Five Things NOT to Do When Reaching Out to Gays."

Notable authors and speakers such as Joe Dallas, Coral Ridge Ministries Founder Dr. D. James Kennedy, Christian recording artist Sheila Walsh and Dr. Robert Wolgemuth have endorsed God's Grace and the Homosexual Next Door.

"Many of us are here today because someone in the church had the courage to demonstrate the loving, uncompromising truth of the Gospel," said Alan Chambers, President of Exodus International. "It is our great hope that countless more will reach out to the gay men and women in their lives who might otherwise be ignored."

Exodus International recently launched the Exodus Church Network - a ministry that provides training sessions and resources to educate churches leaders and their congregations on what the Bible has to say about issue of homosexuality. Men and women formerly identified as gay individuals are available to speak and encourage an attitude of compassion towards the gay community and church members who are conflicted by unwanted same-sex attraction.

Founded in 1976, Exodus International is the largest resource and referral organization dealing with homosexual issues in the U.S. and throughout the world. With over 135 ministries across North America, Exodus is a growing network of former homosexuals dedicated to sharing the transforming power of Jesus Christ.

To read an excerpt from the book: www.harvesthousepublishers.com/books_nonfictionbook.cfm?productID=6916911

For information on purchasing the book: www.harvesthousepublishers.com/books_buy.cfm

Orlando ministry says it helps heal 'unwanted homosexuality'

Link: AP Wire | 05/13/2006 | Orlando ministry says it helps heal 'unwanted homosexuality'.

ORLANDO, Fla. - Matthew Walker was always teased as a kid for being small, awkward and different. He felt different, too, but wasn't sure exactly why.

He must've been about 7 or 8 years old when he pointed toward a bouncer at a country music festival in Branson, Mo., telling his brother something like, "You know, if I was a girl I would date him."

By the time he got to Oklahoma State University, Walker was dating guys. But now, at age 34, he has been out of homosexuality for more than seven years.

He's one of thousands of former homosexuals who enlisted the help of an Orlando-based Christian group called Exodus International, an organization with 135 member ministries in the United States that works to "heal" gays and lesbians through prayer, counseling and group therapy.

The ministry is at the forefront of an increasingly high-profile "ex-gay" movement that claims it's possible to leave homosexuality behind, and estimates it has successfully treated tens of thousands of people since it began three decades ago in San Francisco.

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Chambers is quick to point out that Exodus isn't about "curing" anyone or "turning people straight." In fact, many who go through the program might never have a heterosexual relationship, he says.

Instead, it's about refraining from activities that violate their beliefs - in God or anything else - and addressing "unwanted homosexuality."

"These are people who have identified that they struggle with same-sex attractions and are conflicted about that, and they want to find some sort of level of support and ability to overcome those feelings, move beyond them or live with them in conjunction with their Christianity," Chambers said. ...

Go read the rest of the story ... it's rare to find a truly balanced article and this one is.  Thank you Mr. Reed.

Joe Dallas On HomeWord with Jim Burns

Joe taped a program for HomeWord with Jim Burns  which will air today  (April 20 & April 21) .  The program's title is A Man's Strategy for Defeating Sexual Addiction (Part 1 & 2), and discusses the concepts in his book The Game Plan.

The program can also be heard on-line at www.HomeWord.com up to two weeks after the broadcast date.